Dear Joe | February 1, 1943

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Hello my Darling,

I received your cute letter on Wednesday. I’m very sorry my letters don’t get through but as I remember I wrote almost every day. I can’t say that for this week. I haven’t done much writing this last week but I promise I’ll do better here after. By now you have received my Sunday letter. Pease darling, I hope you see fit to forgive me. I didn’t do anything that wasn’t right, except not getting in, but that’s what happens when you depend on someone else to get you home.

I also got a letter from Will today. I received a letter from you written the last of November. He won’t answer it he says he hasn’t your address. He is still on land as he is seeing his sister. He hears from Florence regularly and would like us to spend one evening with his folks and Florence while you’re home. I guess he wants to know how we feel about her.

I can’t say I would enjoy your type of training. It is a bit hard I bet. That isn’t my idea of fun. We still have some cold days and had a little more snow yesterday. I hope it will be a little warmer by the time you get home. I’m just dreaming how you will look. I think about you all the time. I can’t imagine why except that I love you so much that it almost kills me to be away from you. I am really ashamed of myself for ever doing what I did. I haven’t any excuse but I must get it off my mind until I hear what you have to say about it.

Darling, I still love you and by all means still intend to be your wife if you want me. I love you with all my heart and I want to help to make you your whole life a bit happy. I promise I’ll do my best to make the type of life you want. I know I can’t find anyone else I could ever love like I love you. I want to make you happy and I sincerely hope I am given the chance. There can never be another Joe Joe. And I hope you won’t ever find anyone to find my place while I am still around. I want you as much as you want me. I know I will never get tired of saying sweet things to you. I always love to hear you say you love me. I guess our love is just that way.

Mom and I have had a bad weekend. Me all tired out and she had baby Jerry. He is really sick and Dar just can’t take care of him. He has an awful cold and mom stayed up and took care of him. We got my room papered yesterday but I still have to paint he woodwork. Please try to make something out of this. The baby is playing with the pen as I write. He’s been playing and writing all over the paper. He just insists he sits on my lap while I write to you.

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I have a lot of work to do and so I’ll have to close for this time. I write more tomorrow. I only hope your mail gets through to you. God bless you darling and keep loving me always.

Love
DeLores

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P.s. These kisses I send you are just a sample of what I’ll give you when you get home. Please God let Joe get home shortly after boot camp. I miss him so much and I need him so much. I just have to sit down and talk to him very soon, so dear God let him come home.

Darling, I hope you don’t think I’m silly but that’s just how I feel about it. Don’t feel too badly as you must put forth your best so you can get that leave that we so much depend on. Our beginning of life together. I just must stop or I’ll go on all evening. Bye bye my darling. I love you very much, sweets.

Dear DeLores | February 3, 1943

In the last letter I posted from my grandpa on January 24, 1943, he wrote something that I was sure I’d mistyped.

He said, “I bought the official song of our station for you. I hope you’ll like it. Try not to lose it as it would be nice to save for a souvenir. I don’t know exactly when I’ll get it mailed, but I’ll try and get it off real soon.”

Tonight, as I was sorting the next month of letters, I found one that felt different than the rest. I opened it and found this!

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I looked a little closer and found one more.

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I’m sure these must be what my grandpa had referenced. Although “song” is not at all what I would call these. What word, that could be mistaken for “song” could also be used to describe the patch above?

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A quick Google search of “Navy patches WWII” brought me to this. So I’m thinking Chief Petty Officer First Class. The square knot on the one Grandpa sent isn’t shown below. But Google makes me think square and figure eight knots mean apprentice. Let’s be honest, I’m not even going to pretend I know what I’m talking about.

I’m grateful for the history lesson I’m gaining from these letters and the curiosity it’s sparking in me to find out more. And with that… more to come.

ChiefPettyOfficer

Dear Joe | January 31, 1942

Hello My Darling,

Please forgive me not writing much this past week. Haven’t a good excuse but I know my Joe will understand. I love you very much. I should write to help my darling do his best, but when you get home we can get that all fixed up.

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I received your letter Tuesday and it was well together. I also got that box of old letters but failed to find one I sent you. It was of a V letter from Millie, Bernice and myself. Didn’t you ever receive it or what? I am going over to Iris’ so so I can learn to Farragut’s song. I look okay as far I can figure out.

Darling, if you need any money for anything to get home or anything just let me know. If I haven’t it, Mom will. I am paying board when I can. Gave mom $10 this week and put $18 away. Next week I’ll pay on the bedroom set and then that’s all for another month. I’ll also try to give the jeweler some. I’m trying so hard so will have money when you get here but I don’t know.

Darling, I have something to tell you and please try very hard to understand. I went to a party in Minneapolis with the kids from work Friday night. It wasn’t perhaps what I should have done but you have to do something once and a while. Most of the kids got stinko but you know I didn’t touch a drop. Neither did Millie. It was a house party and lasted very late. I had fun at the time but don’t feel the same way about it today. I was depending on someone else to get me home and they almost didn’t. I got home just in time to go to work Saturday morning. I went and stayed all day. I couldn’t miss that $8 we need so much. I got home and went right to bed. That explains why I didn’t write last night.

Please try to understand. I didn’t do anything out of the way I must tell you. I danced all evening and there was a fellow. Who was very good at the stomp and he taught me several new steps. Please sweetheart, I promise I didn’t mean anything by it. I went because the kids wanted me to. Next time they will just have have to work.

I know you didn’t want me to go out that way but please don’t get angry and try to call off everything. That would just about kill me. I trust my Joe will understand and not get sour at me. I love you too much to want anything to happen to our beautiful plans. I just had to tell you and try and make you understand. I would not want anyone else to tell you but me. Please try and understand your (I hope it will remain) future wife.

I have to stop for a while as Mom and Dad are going to paper my room so I can have our bedrooms at home when you get home. We will use it too. I hope. Or will we? Let’s say 1 the first night in a hotel just for fun. I never have stayed in a hotel with you and that will be something for us always to remember.

I suppose I will have to have dark as my attendance but I just can’t figure out who the best man will be. Of course that is your decision.

Are you still willing to become a Lutheran for me? I would like it and hope you haven’t changed your mind about it. Sweets, can we get a license to get married? I must stop for a while and will write more later. God bless you and help you to understand. I’ll be worried until you answer me on the letter. So answer it as soon as possible.

Just remember I never did, or will do anything to make you to mistrust me. I’m yours and yours to have if you want. I was and will always be a good girl. That much I will always be for you. Please try to understand and make me happy by forgiving me for one night of foolishness. I want to be your wife, please don’t change that because of this.

Love,
DeLores

Dear DeLores | January 24, 1943

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Hello darling,

I hope you are feeling fine this Sunday. The only reason I didn’t get a letter off to you last night was that I felt quite blue thinking about your birthday party and everything that I just couldn’t write. I laid down on my bunk and concentrated on you all evening. I sang “happy birthday” to you and I day dreamed that I was there with you. You can understand why I couldn’t write, can’t you?

I guess the mail service has been kind of bum lately going both ways. I didn’t receive a letter from you yesterday or today. I understand as you do that there is a possibility of a delay on the mail services. Here’s hoping that I receive one tomorrow from you, dear.

We sure had a very fine inspection yesterday. At 9 o’clock in the morning all the Co. lined up in the drill hall and we had personal inspection. Then an officer inspected our barracks for cleanliness. We passed both with flying colors and one of the inspecting officers said that our Co. was the best in the regiment. That sure made us feel good and our Co. Commander was sure happy. He gave us very light duty in the afternoon for our swell showing.

I bought the official song of our station for you. I hope you’ll like it. Try not to loose it as it would be nice to save for a souvenir. I don’t know exactly when I’ll get it mailed, but I’ll try and get it off real soon.

The weather has been pretty nice the last couple of days. We have about two feet of snow but the sun has been out and the scenery looks beautiful. This place wouldn’t be half bad if the climate was decent. The scenery is really beautiful.

I hope you had a nice birthday with the girls last night. I’ll try very hard to make the next party for you dear. I was thinking of you all evening especially hard. I was hoping that our thoughts might get together. Your 19 now and a real big girl. Well dear, you have been big for quite some time and doing a fine job of keeping things going for us back home.

You know how much I love you, dear. Knowing that you love me the same and are waiting for me gives me the strength to meet any situation that may come up. I dream of the day when we’ll be married. I’m sure that marriage is the right thing for us. Our love is one that just seems to grow and grow. I know mine is embedded deep in me and I believe yours is also. With God’s help we might be able to be together for a while soon. I hope and pray that it may be soon. But that is up to my supervisors. They run the whole show as for where I go.

I have found out when we are going to graduate. That doesn’t mean that I’ll get a leave as I won’t know that until the day I graduate. The date is the 12th of February. I certainly will be glad to take these boots off. If I don’t get the leave right away, I’ll get one quite soon.

How is Lucille? I hope she is fine and not too angry with me for not writing her. I’m going to try and get a letter off to her real soon.How is Dale? Write and tell me what a fellow mate is doing as I would be glad to know if he is in school yet.

I hope your mother and dad are O.K. Give them my love and regards. I guess I’m going to have to close for now. I’m going to try and get a few letters off today. I owe one to Mother and Bernice. I also have to write the kids.

Take good care of yourself sweetheart. I love you with all my heart and soul and here is a kiss to my wife.

Your loving sailor husband (to be),

Joe

P.S. God bless you, dear.