Dear Joe | January 8, 1943

Hello My Darling,

How are you this fine evening? Well I hope. I’m very tired as I stopped downtown and spent my whole check on bills. I gave to Twin City $10.00; Hoff $5.00 and your jeweler $5.00. By the way, his records show you owe him $16 and some cents. Is that what you thought it was? I’m having him make my ring a bit larger as it is very tight and also having J.A. and D.A. and the date put in it. By the way, do you remember the date? Just wonder if you remember the most wonderful one so far in our lives together (or at least on the most important).

I hope you O.K. my doing about the ring and is it all right or I mean is he alright to trust with my ring? I think now I should have asked first but when I’m downtown I don’t always have it on and I was there and everything . Darling he can be trusted with my diamond, can’t he? Mom was a bit put out with me because I left it with him, but after all you bought it from him and he’s a friend of yours. It is ok, isn’t it? I’m very worried about it so please let me know. I came home anyway and mom was cleaning house and I made a bit to eat and we had supper. Then we did dishes and we started closing the K. Mom got me down and I really gave the mopboards a work out. I just finished and I’m a mess. I bet  you can just about imagine.

I’m sorry I didn’t write last night but I got one off this afternoon from work so you shouldn’t miss. I got your letter of the 5th and I am sorry I ever sent you that sad letter. I really should not have but you know me. Try to make those cold tablets last as I’ve spent most of my check paying bills so I just haven’t got the money to buy it to send. I still haven’t been able to put any money away. I guess I’m just no good. It’s going to be a struggle for you to teach me how to hold on to the stuff. You’re so good at it. Have you gotten the box as yet? Did you find the dollar in the money belt?

Darling I’m just so tired I can’t write anymore. Try to forgive me for doing so badly but my hand burns from wringing the old mop rag. Remember darling I love you and I think of you all the time. God bless you and keep you. I’ll write more tomorrow. I just can’t go on anymore tonight.

Love,

Your wife DeLores

P.S. I’ll be all right after a few hours of sleep. I’m just tired so don’t worry about me.

P.S.S. These are all kisses for my darling.

LOVE

Dear DeLores | January 10, 1943

Dearest Sweetheart,

I hope you are feeling fine this Sunday. I really feel pretty fine outside of a slight cough. It isn’t bad at all so don’t worry about it.

I just couldn’t write last night. We had our organized athletics yesterday and I was all in. We started out in the afternoon by running about 3 miles, then over the obstacle course, then double time back to the drill hall to play basketball for an hour and then swim. They sure are trying there hardest to make real men out of us. It turns you out but I have been able to stand it so far.

Yes, dear, I am trying very hard to get good marks in my tests. I am going to study my Blue Jackets Manual today as we are going to have a test on half of it some time this week.

I really feel pretty lonesome today. It just seems that I have been away from you for ages. I know it must affect you the same way too. Darling I don’t know when or if I’ll get a leave right away but I know you will wait for me. I look forward always to the day when we will be married. I can’t seem to end the words in my vocabulary to express the love in my heart for you. I love you so much. You are the power behind the man with the gun that keeps him going. Your faith and love in me gives me the extra punch when the going is tough. I just seem to sense that you are here with me all the time. I know that our true love will carry us both through these hard times. Love is truly the most wonderful thing in the world. Especially when it is so wonderful and great like ours.

Have you heard where Bud is? I hope he is fine and not too far away. I suppose by now he is across. If you write to him please send him my regards and loads of luck.

How is Addie? I suppose she likes her new job a lot better than down at Cuday’s. Say hello to my future sister-in-law and I hope she’ll excuse me for not writing. Tell everyone back home that I’ll write them as soon as the Navy gives me a little time.

Well, darling, I’ll close for now but will write some more a little later in the day. Please take care of yourself dear. I love you very much and here is a little kiss for my one and only.

Your loving sailor man,

Joe

Dear Joe | January 6, 1943

The last letter introduced a friend of my grandparent’s… Will Lehner. He’s come up a few times now, and in this letter my grandma sends my grandpa a few pictures. Who is this guy they speak so fondly of but isn’t family? I asked my dad, and it turns out Will is a close friend of both of theirs from high school. My dad thinks he remembers Will being my grandma’s dance partner. He stayed very close friends with my grandparents throughout the years and they think he even came to my grandma’s funeral two years ago.

Will is a pretty remarkable fellow. He enlisted in the Navy in 1938. In the early morning on December 7, 1941, Will was on the gun crew of the USS Ward patrolling the entrance to Pearl Harbor. He fired the very first shots of World War II, intercepting and sinking a 2 man Japanese submarine at 6:40 am… an hour and 20 minutes before the actual attack on Pearl Harbor. Wow. That’s all I have to say about that.

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Hello Darling Sweetheart,

Just got home and read your two wonderful letters. I also got your menu and it is certainly beautiful. Mom says I should have it framed for us. What do you think? I sort of agree with her.

Darling please don’t worry about my seeing Will and Ken. Mrs. Lehner had some kids over there last night, me included. Will hasn’t changed much — a little older. He wears a mustache, not bad. I don’t even know if it tickles. I didn’t try it. Aren’t you disappointed? I’m not. I’m very selfish. I’m saving them for us so I don’t run out. Will has taken to drinking pretty much and he insisted I have one with him. It was weak and only one. Please don’t be angry but I couldn’t tell him no after all this time.

News, Will met me up at the drug store so I wouldn’t have to walk down alone and Helen was with him. She holds on as if she is glued to him. All evening he invited her in front of everyone and everyone was talking about her behind her back. I only had a few words with him alone, but he said he would call and give me the dope. He did say however that he wasn’t worrying about it as life is too uncertain at the present time. He has asked her for the ring but she thinks it can still work out for them together. I really don’t think Will does.

Will got away from her long enough to meet Florence Saul or something like that. He said you know her. She lives up your way. He had try little to say about the war. But he said a sailor should not be married. He said it is too hard or something. I guess he meant it was hard to get along without. I think my husband is strong enough to control his, well, you know what. Ken is as bashful as ever, takes a few but not like Will. He is really off, but he can take care of himself. So much for the kids except they are leaving Saturday morning so I won’t be able to see them off. It would have only made more confusion anyway.

In your first letter tonight you were on my neck for not writing and in the second vica versa. Anyway, I do get a letter off almost every day and I can’t see why you don’t get them for a couple of days and then get 3 at once. Just another mystery. Anyway we are both doing our best and that’s all either of us can do. If your studying should be done, I’ll understand if you put it first. I just want you to make good. Very good.

I’m glad to hear you saw Mill and know there are a few of your friends out there with you. Have you seen Don D. as yet? You kids from school should get together some time. I mean if they give you any time off out of K.P.

Will is the best cook on his ship I hear. Not a bad catch for some gal, but not me. I can’t see what I even saw in him other than a friend. Oh well! We must live and learn.

Darling, about sending anymore for a couple of weeks I think not unless you really need them. You see, the government is only giving us $60 a year for clothing with the little I’ve got I’ll have to get a few things first. Please don’t think I don’t think enough of you to give up anything, but you should have enough for a few days.

Darling I won’t be angry about the luncheon cloth. I am a bit disappointed because you said you had left $.50 on it but it isn’t enough to get mad over. I hope you don’t think I’m going out too much. It helps to keep me from getting lonesome somehow. How do you suppose your mom found out about our plans? I’m very sorry too that she had to hear, but we can’t cry over spilled milk. I guess it was better now that I didn’t call her after all. Please write to her though and to Hi too if you possibly can. They would like to hear. They ask about you every day. I have to get to bed early tonight as it was 1:00 by the time I got into bed. Darling, I love you and you alone. By the way, Bob Law is enlisting in the Navy also. He expects to leave next week. Also to Idaho. I’m very tired so I’ll sign off for this time.

Love,

DeLores

Darling, if you ever go out, please take care of yourself in every way and I rust you to the end. This picture of the kids were taken in the spring so they aren’t too new, but it’s an idea. I love you darling and may God e with you always. Keep your chin and head and heart light.

Love,

Your future wife, “Me”

P.S. Say if you should get a leave in March maybe it might just be March 3, hmmmmm? Any day would please me but I’d like that one special. Anyway, we’ll see won’t we? Just so it is. See you soon!

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Dear DeLores | January 4, 1943

Before sharing Grandpa’s letter for today, I wanted to post a picture of the adorable man. Love him.

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Hello Darling,

I sure was glad to receive your letters. I received three of them today.

That certainly is wonderful that Will and Ken got home. Boy! It made me feel plenty bum that I couldn’t be home to see them, but I’m in the Navy too and don’t have anything to say about what I do. I bet you really were glad to see them. You tell me just how they look and are, won’t you? Give them my best wishes and regards and tell them that after this thing is over with we’ll all get together again. I sure bet that Will’s mother was happy. I don’t mind at all that you see Will. I sure ought to be able to trust you now dear. I know you didn’t really mean it such as you were going out with him. I take it that you would probably go some place as old friends and I’m glad that you know what to do. Just use your own judgement and remember me and I’m sure you won’t do anything that I wouldn’t like.

I really trust you with my life, dear. I know you really are being as true as I am and that is as good as gold. Our love is really true and great and will carry us through anything. Please give them my sincere feelings. You know how I feel toward WIll. He is my best pal and tell him that he’ll always be very close to me. I can’t really put it into words, but it is in my heart. I’m going to write him a letter tonight at his home. I think he’ll get it before he leaves. Don’t give him too many kisses. I’m just kidding dear. I know you won’t give too many of ours away.

I’ll be very glad to get your box. Don’t worry anything from home tastes like a million. I’m sure I won’t complain on the cookies at all. I’ll just be very happy to get them.

So it cost you $1.56 for that medicine. Well you can feel good at heart because it was worth 100 times that to me and the fellows out here. It really helped and you are having a part in keeping the sailors health.

Darling, don’t be angry at me, but when we had that little argument I cashed in that slip for that tablecloth at the Mart. I was kind of down in the heart at the time. Don’t be sore at me. I’ll buy you a better one yet. Just wait. I’ll see that my wife has everything I can possibly earn with my two hands.

I am very much in love with you. You are all I talk about. I don’t really seem to be able to put it in to good words. My body and soul love you a whole lot. I’m trying my hardest to be a man about everything and as long as I know you love me as you do and are behind me all the time, I’ll keep on plugging with my chin to the grindstone.

I received a letter from my mother today and it sounds like she has gotten wind of our plans. Well, it is too bad that she had to find out just now but there isn’t anything anyone can do about it. We’re two people very deeply in love and I’m sure that marriage is made for us. I know we can make a go of it. You know that our love is stronger than anything so I hope we’ll find lots of happiness in the future.

Boy! Our company sure is getting the dirty details. We have been good on all the inspections so we aren’t on the “shit” list. We have to start another week of K.P. tomorrow morning. The boys don’t like it at all, but we have to do what we are told and make the best of it.

I haven’t heard anything about when we get done with training but I suppose it will be sometime in February or March. We still don’t know about a leave, but I’ll keep on praying and you keep on too and maybe God will see to it that I get it so we can get married.

Say hello to Iris and everyone for me. I sure wish I could find time to write to them all but you come first and then I have to study. By that time I’m usually about all in and the bunk really feels good. Tell them the circumstances and I hope they’ll understand.

You wanted to know how I liked the Navy. Well, it isn’t too bad. Boot camp is supposed to be pretty tough and it is. I really think I’ll like it a lot better than the Army. When I get into my rating I think I’ll be better. As a whole, the Navy isn’t too bad. If I had to go into some service, I’m not at all sorry that I picked the Navy.

Yes! I know that you really look forward to my letters. I try very hard to get one off every night to you and I have been doing pretty good. You just try and write as often as you can too because your letters are all I look forward to every day. I know you’ll try and get one off every night.

Well! I’m just about out of news for tonight, so I’ll have to sign off. Take good care of yourself and I hope you don’t have too much trouble with you know. I love you dearly and I shall always be the fine guy you want me to be. Loads of all my love and a bunch of kisses.

Bye by darling,

Your sailor husband to be, Joe

Poppy Seed Hamantaschen | take one

My grandpa Joe was Jewish. His mother, my great grandma, Esther Lieberman, apparently made really delicious poppy seed hamantaschen. I never had her cookies. When I was growing up, my dad would stop by Cecil’s Deli in the Highland Park neighborhood of Saint Paul to buy poppy seed hamantaschen to bring home. It was always a really special treat. There are no words for how delicious these cookies are. Seriously. Drive there now and buy one. You’re welcome.

You can imagine how excited I was to find the article below in grandma’s recipe box! Is it possible I could make the flying unicorn of delicious cookies!? Well… I will save you the suspense of wondering and tell you that this recipe is a total flop. They are not the cookies of my dreams. But I am now on a quest to recreate Cecil’s hamantaschen. I might start here next (this blogger gives a GREAT history of this amazing food).

In case you want to re-create my horrible disappointment, here’s the recipe!

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I would bet money that Cecil’s makes their poppy seed filling from scratch. I’m going to try that next time. For now I used the standard Solo poppy seed filling. It’s overly sweet and filled with corn syrup. But it tastes like every poppy seed coffeecake you’ve ever bought.

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The recipe called for the juice and zest of two oranges and one lemon. I only had clementines, so decided to use four. I didn’t remember tasting citrus in my Cecil’s hamantaschen, but I humored the recipe.

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The recipe also called for Crisco, which meant I had a chance to whip out the WONDER CUP (hear angels singing, dang this kitchen gadget is amazing).

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Finally, after mixing up your dough, track down your nearest cute toddler to help roll out the dough. Or don’t. They really can’t help themselves from putting their fingers in your perfectly round cut outs, which really does make forming perfect little cookie hats pretty tricky.

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I have these awesome biscuit cutters. I used the 3 inch and change one. Roll your dough to 1/8th of an inch. My dough was WAY too wet. I added flour until it seemed manageable. I also refrigerated the dough for a couple of hours. It was still pretty difficult to work with.

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Here we are with the filling. I used a tablespoon as my poppy seed scoop.

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Here are my somewhat not perfect hats. Notice they look nothing like Cecil’s.

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When I ran out of poppyseed filling I decided not to open a second can. Instead, I filled them with chocolate and peanut butter chips. They’re fine. They didn’t melt. It’s a decent vehicle for eating chocolate and peanut butter chips.

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Here are my final cookies. They are fine. They are nothing special. The search continues.

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When I got to the end of the dough and couldn’t cut out 3 inch circles any more, I used a small biscuit cutter to make little cookies. I thought they’d be perfect for my 2 year old. I put a few more of the chocolate and peanut butter chips in. They are actually a pretty good toddler cookie. Not too sweet.

If I were actually taking the time to THINK about this, I probably should have grabbed some dried cherries and walnuts out of the cupboard instead. It would have gone better with the slightly citrusy dough– almost like a little scone.

In fact, I think these little toddler cookies with fruit and nuts might be the only reason I would pull out this recipe again.
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Poppy Seed Hamantaschen

1 Cup Shortening

1 Cup Sugar

4 Eggs

1 Teaspoon Vanilla

Juice and part of rind of two oranges

Juice and part of rind of one lemon

1 Teaspoon Salt

4 Cups Flour

4 Teaspoons Baking Powder

Cream together shortening and sugar. Add the eggs one at a time. Then add vanilla, orange, and lemon. Combine dry ingredients separately. Add to wet ingredients.

Roll out dough on a floured surface to 1/8th of an inch thick. Cut dough into 3 inch circles. Place filling in the center and fold edges together to form a tri-cornered hat. Bake at 350 degrees for 15 minutes or until golden brown.